Travelling the Path
Antoine de Saint-Exupery, author of The Little Prince and pioneering aviator, said that in order to save ourselves we “need to take a step. Then another step. It is always the same step, but you have to keep taking it.” My take on this very inspiring quote is for us to keep moving forward despite daunting challenge. I am not so sure about “the same step” however. I would argue that the step may vary in terms of cadence, length, direction, and force.
Whether long-term or at a moment’s notice, we all have to make informed choices about the paths we take. Once we have stepped upon our chosen path, lesser consciousness and effort is given to how we travel that road. Be it making a point in a conversation or satisfying a long-term goal, we become so intent upon getting to the destination that we tend to miss out on valuable experience and minimize our own impact. Besides our choice of paths, we have real opportunity to derive and give meaning along the way to our desired endpoints.
When embarking upon our chosen course, there always exists the corresponding prospects of learning and growing. That expansion of thought and ability depends upon our openness and attention. Instead of a mindless trudge, head downward, we can observe, through a variety of senses, what is occurring at each step. These newfound discoveries can be incorporated with prior internal knowledge and the experience of others to bring about utilizable insight. We have obtained the knowledge, the tools, for the next path. And we will have the confidence, the resilience, for the continuation of our current way forward and the beginning of new journeys.
Equally important to what we take is what we provide from our presence on the trail - how we take care to preserve or improve the path, how we engage with our fellow travelers. There are alternatives to tearing and stomping our way forward, obliterating people and things just to get to our targeted objectives. Obstructions require clearing. Misleading trails call for identification. We can stop to help those struggling on the path, as others have supported us when we stumbled. Ideally, we impart our lessons, leaving instructive signs for those who follow. We may even seek out and find viable alternatives to known routes.
What we take away and what imprints we leave as we travel this life are crucial in our development and the progress of those we encounter. When I was a kid, I was walking through a vacant lot with my best friend, a person who has my greatest admiration decades later. Without thinking, I tossed a candy wrapper on the ground. My friend immediately picked it up. I looked at all the litter around us and asked why bother? He said our job is to leave each place better than we found it. He then picked up what trash he could on the way through the lot. I began to get the idea and helped. When I travel these days, I try to notice litter and beauty in their physical, mental, or emotional guises. My better self helps clear the debris. My best self assists in making sense of what matters and facilitating better paths for others.
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